In Nov. I had to do some shopping at a very big store and got in line to check out, when I heard the cashier and a co- worker having a very serious conversation ab how she does not know why "HE" was so mad and why "HE" had to tell all his friends and so the conversation went on....... I for one thought this was not professional BC I really did not want to hear her life story anyway I'm next in line and she very quickly said hi and carried on with her drama so I decided I would put my unwanted words in and said "HE" does not have to worry and neither do you for at least 9 months and it will give you two some time to get use to the idea of a baby together.................. her response was and I quote " Oh it does not matter BC after December I wont have to worry about it, OK I thought PATERNITY TEST!!!!!! boy I was so wrong.... I was floored with the cold and heartless response I got after suggesting the part of the paternity test her response was " No in December is when I'm GETTING RID OF THE BABY" OK I thought my hearing was failing me so I asked what she meant " I'M HAVING AN ABORTION" was her response!!!!! OK I did not know how to react so all I could say was " oh, oh OK" I mean I wanted to tell her that is was murder and so on but I chose not to since you never know who will sue you and all. Right before I left I just looked at her and said " I have been trying for a year now and in August I lost my baby so you are lucky to be pregnant not everyone is as blessed as you, and walked away I know she was speechless for the look on her face was priceless. Just a couple of weeks ago I was in there again and went through her line and had some very heavy items in my buggy so I told her if she could just scan them in there BC I could not pick them up she of course asked why and if I was sick I then told her no but that I'm pregnant and I'm not supposed to pick up a lot of heavy things. It was as if a knife had stabbed her and was being turned my heart knew then but I HAD TO ASK she then told me the experience was horrible and that she is still in therapy for what had been done she felt that it had not been in Gods will since they had such a hard time reaching the BABY ( OK......... I don't know about you but DUHHHHHHHH!!!!) I am just now able to talk or write about this I cried for the Baby that would never be given the chance I prayed and then I called my sweet husband and ranted about it but I know that God is a mercy giving God so I also prayed for the Woman that had not an ounce of sense that he would show her mercy. Anyway I am so thankful for the Holy Ghost and for some sense!!!!!!!
On a much better note our pregnancy is doing so good still sick and tired but wonderful Brodie has become obsessed with my belly he has to kiss baby all the time and talk to it he's going to be a GREAT big brother! I hope you all have a wonderful day and SMILE WE LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The Isbells
